so as I have posted the question of what does it mean to dream of you washing dishes
so me and my daughter walked up to this apartment
and her friend answered the door
IRL ...this was a guy who showed interest in my daughter from the church .... I was elated
however due to some issues from people at the church ...it went south ...
he mentioned a possible of her being his wife one day
THAT was a game changer for us at our home ...
so we placed them on restrictions to see if this is something they BOTH wanted ...
we didnt want them to run on feelings or pressure from us and his family as well AND members
well....some of the members did NOTTTT take this well from our family this whole idea of them JUST GOING off to date freely
we (her dad and I ) thought thats good however he mentioned marriage ....(but they didnt know that)
we (her dad and me) have a background of teen pregnancy starting from my MOTHER down
we have issues with shacking ......
wE wanted THESE two to reeeealy think about this carefully
anyways ....after 8 months IT WENT south
however it was stated that most dating couple dont last past four months ....
well the restrictions we had them on ....allowed the dating to last 8 MONTHS !!! so the particular way we had them go WORKED
anyways ...
DREAM
we walked thru the door and they began to dance together and right after I washed dishes
rekindled friendship
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Re: rekindled friendship
mealtime fellowship time is over, time to cleanup and pray for cleansing from the situation and reflect on what was learned. I see it as a good symbol.
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Re: rekindled friendship
WOW! thats astounding ! ...why?
because it really did end on a terrible note ...
between me and the guy... my daughter and the guy... church members hating me !
but what the members DID NOT understand was.... it was the guy who mentioned marriage OUT THE gate
which in mY opinion wasn't good ...being that they were YOUNG and never really had any other steadiness any where else
and I can tell he himself wasn't really sure if this was what he wanted ..why ?
I felt that this was ...'encouraged' by church members/his family members to pick my daughter who also is young like him with nO children
they wanted him to find someone to date and marry ...
so who would be a great candidate ?? my daughter
like I said I was elated at the idea ...he seemed (still is) a cool guy
what got me about this dream ...we havent seen this kid since 2018 ...so its kinda weeeird to have this dream now
the members thoughts were....as the adage says on the outside looking in
AND misconstruing the whole situation... causing MUCH discord !
and between me and her dad we place them on restricted dating ....HIS mother thought that was NUTS !!
BUT ...when the enemy has ravaged generations before ME AND HIS MOM as well
....see the devil is ALWAYS into the NEXT ........he is always about THE NEXT generation
I was a teen mom....... MY MOTHER. was a teen mom ..her FIRST daughter (my sister) a teen mom
I was born out of wedlock my sister behind me was born out of wedlock
let me tell ya !
between my grandmother and my first born son ??
NO ONE was married and or NOT shacking up before children or no children we all fell in between those issues
and NOT to mention the young guys family as well ...teen mothers and teen dads on HIS side as well
the young guy and my daughter were not in those categories
well I wanted to BY THE ONLY ......only .....HELP of THE LORD ...
.I just wanted to stop the hermorraging !!! ........THANKS AGAIN BJ !!
because it really did end on a terrible note ...
between me and the guy... my daughter and the guy... church members hating me !
but what the members DID NOT understand was.... it was the guy who mentioned marriage OUT THE gate
which in mY opinion wasn't good ...being that they were YOUNG and never really had any other steadiness any where else
and I can tell he himself wasn't really sure if this was what he wanted ..why ?
I felt that this was ...'encouraged' by church members/his family members to pick my daughter who also is young like him with nO children
they wanted him to find someone to date and marry ...
so who would be a great candidate ?? my daughter
like I said I was elated at the idea ...he seemed (still is) a cool guy
what got me about this dream ...we havent seen this kid since 2018 ...so its kinda weeeird to have this dream now
the members thoughts were....as the adage says on the outside looking in
AND misconstruing the whole situation... causing MUCH discord !
and between me and her dad we place them on restricted dating ....HIS mother thought that was NUTS !!
BUT ...when the enemy has ravaged generations before ME AND HIS MOM as well
....see the devil is ALWAYS into the NEXT ........he is always about THE NEXT generation
I was a teen mom....... MY MOTHER. was a teen mom ..her FIRST daughter (my sister) a teen mom
I was born out of wedlock my sister behind me was born out of wedlock
let me tell ya !
between my grandmother and my first born son ??
NO ONE was married and or NOT shacking up before children or no children we all fell in between those issues
and NOT to mention the young guys family as well ...teen mothers and teen dads on HIS side as well
the young guy and my daughter were not in those categories
well I wanted to BY THE ONLY ......only .....HELP of THE LORD ...
.I just wanted to stop the hermorraging !!! ........THANKS AGAIN BJ !!
Now why dost thou cry out aloud? is there no king in thee? micah 4:9